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Can life be as glamorous as in the movies?

June 15, 2011
Getting some HOT TEA!

Getting some HOT TEA!

Sitting at a café on the beach looking out over the water JK said to me,

“Does perfection exist? Is there a place in the world that has all the good, but none of the bad? How will I make my dreams sustainable? I don’t want to live a dream for a short period of time just to be thwarted back to square one as reality strikes. I guess what it comes down to is that I am searching for sustainable freedom in the world we live in. Maybe I still want to believe life can be as glamorous as in the movies!”

There was a long period of silence between us after he finished. I was taking mental inventory, measuring my life up against the standard he had just created with his declaration. Knowing JK, I understand exactly where his comment was coming from, but did it also apply to me?

JK has fears. “Fears” is probably too strong. He doesn’t fear because he has decided that feeling is too risky in life. JK has… “blah”. At some point he decided that the chance of failure if he attempted to do something that could altar his life direction was too great so he shut down his emotional core. He is mildly successful, living an easy life filled with spurts of fun mixed with intense boredom — and that is just the way he likes it… most of the time.

JK has a steady job, a few good friends and a comfortable home. His best friends gave up on him long ago, accepting what they get. In truth, some of them secretly like JK’s attitude because it means that they will always think they are better than him. A harsh statement, but years of observation and chats with mutual friends has proved this to be true. Unfortunately for JK, this causes toxic energy that adds to the ‘blah’ and making him feel all alone.

In that prolonged silence, I left behind my thoughts of JK and compared his words to my life. “Sustainable freedom.” What a beautiful phrase. I thought about Timothy Ferriss’s book, The Four-Hour Workweek:

“…there is no need to wait and every reason not to.”

Lambrusco y foie gras con rocafort - 1 €

Lambrusco y foie gras con rocafort - 1 €

And that is when I realized that I *am* living a life as glamorous as in the movies. Almost seven years ago I left behind the corporate 9 to 5 job to follow my dreams. Since then, I have lived in various countries, worked with a list of artists and companies that continuously inspire me, taught in conferences and classrooms around the world, written a book and am about to embark on a new adventure living and working in a globally recognized eco-society. From Cirque du Soleil to Damanhur, I would say those are pretty movie worthy experiences!

Going back to JK’s comment, how is it that I am making my dreams sustainable both emotionally and physically? My lifestyle is unique and can be isolating and financially draining if not managed correctly. Is it just luck that I seem to find a way to create community and a way to sustain myself everywhere I go?

Anyone that knows me knows that there is one thing that drives me: I LOVE WHAT I DO. It is that simple. When I am passionate about something, I will work tirelessly. I take good care of myself, allowing ample downtime with friends and alone, but when I am inspired, there is no stopping. And in that sentence there lies the key: I require *constant inspiration*. So how do I find it?

Clouds over the mountains

Clouds over the mountains

Walking through the city late at night the other day with my headphones on, I noticed that without thought I was singing and dancing down the street. The same thing happens on the metro. I have also caught myself laughing out loud while reading books in public, climbing up gates to smell pretty flowers, randomly taking pictures of animals and objects, wrapping my arms around trees to exchange energy, staring out my window to admire the sky as I work, spontaneously hugging my friends… in short, inspiration lies everywhere when you allow yourself to see the beauty of the Universe.

BREATHE DEEP - Jasmine

BREATHE DEEP - Jasmine

So if I love what I do and am inspired by the world around me, then I trust that the Universe will provide me with all the messages I need to guide my life of sustainable freedom and allowing me to follow my dreams free of fear and hesitation. Every opportunity is exciting; every event a new adventure. So what if now and again I am thwarted back to what appears to be square one? I probably learned something valuable effectively making square one actually square 1.5, and I am confident that the new path will be even better than the previous.

So maybe that is what JK has really lost — his sense of wonder and inspiration? I hope he finds it. Life is much more exciting that any television show or movie when you surround yourself with people and places you love and support all the crazy things you do in the name of INSPIRATION!

 

 

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Want and need are NOT the same, when will we learn?

May 10, 2011

Last night, my stubborn Taurus side came out as I got into a heated discussion with a dear friend. As the words flowed, I knew that the way I was trying to explain my point of view was all wrong, but my ego was in full control. She was wearing a clever disguise of concern and real-world experience, but instead of approaching X with compassion, she was trying to pound in her point with severity. I stomped my feet and snorted until he threw his hands up in the air and cried for mercy. Realizing what I had done, I retreated swiftly and apologized, but an opportunity for mutual learning was lost.

There are some topics that push me over the edge: Illegal downloading of music, lack of understanding that production people are artists as well (our “art” is making sure your “art” is seen/heard), and the topic du jour from yesterday – the complete lack of understanding between want and need.

Bedroom

Bedroom by Benoit Dupont, on Flickr

So here is my brief synopsis (BTW, if you know me, you know that brief is not something I do well, so bear with me): X tells me that his focus right now is on making money to give to his Mom because she still works 12 hours days at a to support the family. His Mom lives with her partner, but for argument sake let’s pretend he doesn’t exist since I have no idea what his financial contribution is to the household. There are two children at home between 15 and 19. As he is telling me this, I am looking around and seeing that the kids each have in their rooms a television, high-end stereo, computer, iPhone and every other gizmo a high school kid could want.

X continues, “My focus is on work, not school. Soon I will start a new full time job where I can make really good money so that I can help my Mom. I can work now that I am young and enjoy life later when I am older.”

So I probe… “You say your Mom works long hours to maintain the family, but it seems to me that the family has lots of stuff and enjoys many vacations and evenings out. Would you and your siblings be willing to give up your televisions, for example, if it would mean that your Mom could work 1 hour a day less?” And that was the comment that started the flare up that became an intense discussion between “need” vs “want”.

I have worked corporate jobs with lots of money where I felt poor, and have been a freelancer with little to no money coming in for months on end and really been poor. You know what it taught me? That poor is often a state of mind. I had many physical objects before, but it never satisfied my desire for more. One day I realized that it was all about how I was looking at things. Now I make sure I have what I need and savor every experience where I choose to acquire a want.

So while X was telling me about the month long vacations he has every year and the 115 euro bottles of champagne he bought his parents as a gifts last month, I was finding it hard to believe that his Mom “needed” to work 12 hours a day to make ends meet. The truth was she has made a “choice”, much to the frustration of her kids that miss her terribly, because she “wants” a certain lifestyle. I believe she could work less hours if she would accept that some of her “needs” are actually “wants” that can be sacrificed in exchange for more free time with friends and family. Or maybe she doesn’t want to work less, choosing instead the “wants” over more time? That is a valid choice as well.

Am I being naïve in my thoughts? Maybe, but after teaching about abundance and transformation for several years, I truly believe that the core of the problem is that we get stuck into thinking that we can’t change our circumstances, confusing “wants” for “needs”.

People don’t believe they can live their lives differently; they live in fear to step out and become what they desperately desire to be. But instead of seeing that, the human tendency is to make excuses for why change is impossible – excuses that usually involve blaming someone else. Fear holds us in place. Paulo Coelho put it best recently when he said:

“Many people are afraid to hope. They want to be prepared for failure.”

I hope I can show X that change is possible. Ultimately, he has to discover it on his own, so I think the best I can do is plant the seeds and hope that knowledge grows into understanding through experience.

As for this topic of conversation, next time it comes up, until I can get that ego of mine in check, I think I am going to nod my head and politely agree to disagree. If they want to know more, they can read Inspirations from Binah.

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I need help to have confidence when talking to the public

January 24, 2011

From Anthony:

I lack confidence when talking to the public and this affects me a lot at my work.
Please help me.

 

Inspirations from Binah:

Sometimes, just the idea of speaking in public can cause a person’s blood pressure to rise.  The fear of saying something wrong or being ignored is enough to keep you quiet.  But as you are finding, this can lead to isolation in life and loss of opportunities at work.

To overcome your fear, you must discover its root.  Did you have bad experiences as a child, such as angry responses from adults or being ignored?  Have you always been afraid to speak up?  Go into meditation, call upon your Higher Self, and explore the core issue that causes your anxiety when talking to others.  It may take several journeys to find the source, which may be a combination of several experiences all tangled together, so be patient and review your notes after each meditation.

No matter what the cause, forgive the events from which it came and prepare to heal the wound.  In meditation, speak directly to the source of your fear and tell it that the time has come for it to be released.  Ask if there are any final lessons that you must learn, and after receiving the answer, thank it for its help and consciously begin the process of transmuting the fear into the courage needed to heal.

To rebuild your speaking strength, use a daily mantra.  According to George A. Boyd, “A mantra is an empowered word. An empowered word is a word that has great psychological or spiritual efficacy to powerfully focus our attention on an inner vehicle, on our spirit, or on our Soul.”

To get rid of the fear and boldly speak your mind, use:

Aum Vanishwaraye Vidmahe
Hayagrivaye Dhimahi
Tanno Hayagrivah Prachodayat

Translation: “Om. Let us meditate on the glorious Lord Hayagriva, who is the embodiment of Sri Maha Vishnu. May that great Vagishwara, the Lord of Speech, and consort of Vagishwari, Sarasvati Devi, the Goddess of Knowledge and Speech, inspire and illumine our mind and understanding.”

You can:

  • write a mantra over and over and over, which fixes it as a powerful impression in our Subconscious mind.
  • speak a mantra aloud (chanting) or sing it (bhajan).
  • whisper a mantra.
  • breathe a mantra.
  • repeat the mantra with our attention by thinking it (simran).

Use your mantra daily, especially when faced with speaking in public.  When you feel the anxiety rise, take a deep breath and speak your mantra to yourself, allowing its power to flow through your entire body.

As the fear dissolves and your confidence rises, you will find yourself more open to conversations and speeches.  Words effortlessly gush from your mouth, showing the world the brilliance you have been hiding.

 

George A. Boyd
Mantra provided

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How can I explore my unconscious self?

January 22, 2011

Read Inspirations from Binah in Whispers of Spirit


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From Narissa:

My partner and I are going through some very big changes. We recently acquired a large property which we are in the process of converting into a multi-performance artist space. We are both artists ourselves, so this is a dream come true.

The problem is, I feel like we have no mechanisms for understanding where we are emotionally and spiritually through this transition. Neither one of us likes Tarot, nor many of the tools for connecting to personal energy… at least we haven’t found anything we like. We’d ideally like something that not only shows us where we are, but also helps us stay healthy. Our world is full of color and shapes, turning random stuff people give us into works of art. Any suggestions on what we can use to tune in?


Inspirations from Binah:

In reading your message, one simple word comes to mind: Mandalas.  Combining Sacred Geometry and Color, mandalas provide a way to focus energy, evaluate where you are, and heal.

The word mandala is Sanskrit for circle.  All of its design fits within this powerful shape, starting from the center point and pushing out to its completion.  It is a window to the unconscious, a sacred space to explore without bounds.  With each layer of color, you project your innermost feelings, enabling you to see and correct imbalances.

There are many designs available, but with your artist backgrounds, you should be encouraged to create your own mandalas.  Begin with a blank page or canvas.  Create a circle of any size; this is your outermost border, but not necessarily a part of your design.  Mandalas can be created with any shape, each expressing something different.  Refrain from using color just yet, now is the time to allow Sacred Geometry to be your language.  Starting from the center point, allow your artistry to take form.

When you are done, take a minute to meditate on the shapes you have drawn.  Do they feel balanced?  Do you have more curved/feminine lines representing a need to process or straight/masculine lines representing a need to act?  What do you find in your meditation on these shapes?

The next phase is the coloring portion.  Starting again from the center, choose each color with your eyes closed.  Let your creativity take over and guide the process, this is the best way to connect with your unconscious self.  Once you are done, meditate on your final piece.  What do you feel?

If you hit a point where you do not understand what you are supposed to learn from the mandala you have created, you can bring your mind into your processing by consciously applying your knowledge of color and geometry interpretations.  There are several websites and books which you can refer to that talk about the basic definitions of each shape and color.  Starting with an intuitive interpretation, and then enhancing it with a more intellectual approach, will open gateways to emotions and thoughts locked deep within.

Mandalas can be created when you feel you need them or even as a daily exercise.  Just like some people pull a single Tarot card every morning to understand the energy for the day, you can use a mandala in the same way.  When you need to work through a very specific energy, choose a prepared design and let the coloring-in process be your therapy.  You will be amazed at how much you can learn about yourself with each work of art you create.

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Inspirations from Binah:

 

In reading your message, one simple word comes to mind: Mandalas.  Combining Sacred Geometry and Color, mandalas provide a way to focus energy, evaluate where you are, and heal.

 

The word mandala is Sanskrit for circle.  All of its design fits within this powerful shape, starting from the center point and pushing out to its completion.  It is a window to the unconscious, a sacred space to explore without bounds.  With each layer of color, you project your innermost feelings, enabling you to see and correct imbalances.

 

There are many designs available, but with your artist backgrounds, you should be encouraged to create your own mandalas.  Begin with a blank page or canvas.  Create a circle of any size; this is your outermost border, but not necessarily a part of your design.  Mandalas can be created with any shape, each expressing something different.  Refrain from using color just yet, now is the time to allow Sacred Geometry to be your language.  Starting from the center point, allow your artistry to take form.

 

When you are done, take a minute to meditate on the shapes you have drawn.  Do they feel balanced?  Do you have more curved/feminine lines representing a need to process or straight/masculine lines representing a need to act?  What do you find in your meditation on these shapes?

 

The next phase is the coloring portion.  Starting again from the center, choose each color with your eyes closed.  Let your creativity take over and guide the process, this is the best way to connect with your unconscious self.  Once you are done, meditate on your final piece.  What do you feel?

 

If you hit a point where you do not understand what you are supposed to learn from the mandala you have created, you can bring your mind into your processing by consciously applying your knowledge of color and geometry interpretations.  There are several websites and books which you can refer to that talk about the basic definitions of each shape and color.  Starting with an intuitive interpretation, and then enhancing it with a more intellectual approach, will open gateways to emotions and thoughts locked deep within.

 

Mandalas can be created when you feel you need them or even as a daily exercise.  Just like some people pull a single Tarot card every morning to understand the energy for the day, you can use a mandala in the same way.  When you need to work through a very specific energy, choose a prepared design and let the coloring-in process be your therapy.  You will be amazed at how much you can learn about yourself with each work of art you create.

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How can I keep my heart from not being broken again?

December 21, 2010

From Carmen:

I have found love twice, I believe.  One died suddenly 3 years ago.  For the past two years, I have had another relationship, but a few days ago something changed and he turned around and said to me “I seem to imagine a different relationship”!

We were not in contact for a while and a year ago we agreed to go back into some type of relationship.  For sure I know he likes me for a long time, but he is married.  Last week, he had breakfast with me for my birthday… After a few days, I sent him a message saying I really wanted to see him again soon and he turned around and said I think too much.  I feel like a fool.

At this stage, I just need someone to spend a little time with me.  How can I keep my heart from not being broken again and again.  Is something wrong with me?

Inspirations from Binah:

Relationships require give and take, an equitable flow of energy between people.  You already know that this man is not interested in a true relationship, so it is better for you to walk away now.

You began your final paragraph by saying that you only want someone to spend a little time with you, but then go on to say how you fear having your heart broken.  Those two sentences contradict each other, for if all you really want is a companion, you would not invest your heart and therefore, there would be nothing to break.  Before stepping into another relationship, it is time to step back to discover what you truly want.

There are times when words are not the best way to express, so use pictures instead.  Sit down with a few magazines, a pair of scissors, a poster board and some glue.  Go through all the magazines and cut out pictures that represent what you want in a relationship.  Release your thoughts and react to each picture emotionally, cutting things out without thinking about them.  The pictures should represent all areas of a relationship, including activities, how you feel when you are together, what your future will be like and so forth.  Have fun with this, cutting out everything that makes you smile.

When you are done, arrange the pictures on the poster board and glue them into place, creating a collage.  Resist the urge to think about what each picture means, that will come later.  For now, let your creative side take over and put each piece in place, creating a great work of art.

With your collage complete, you can begin using this new tool for self-discovery.  Sit in your sacred space, ready to meditate on the symbol you have created.  Call in your Higher Self and guides, place the collage comfortably in front of you and stare at it as you enter into a meditative trance.  Let the images wash over you, covering your entire being with this energy.  When you are ready, close your eyes and journey into your ideal relationship.  Record all that you experience.

Over time, use this collage as a way to discover not only what you want in a relationship, but what you need to heal in yourself in order to attract it.  Ask your Higher Self to guide you as you see the cords and fears that keep pushing you into unhealthy relationships.  Each time you meditate with the collage, ask a different question, such as:

  • What is holding me back from attracting my ideal relationship?
  • How do I cut the cords and heal?
  • When my partner looks at me, who do I want he/she to see?
  • How do I become the person I want to be in this relationship?

The collage is a visual representation of what you truly want.  Meditating on it, will take you deep into that energy so that you can find the answers your waking mind seeks.  This process may take time, so be strong and realize that at the end of the path, you will find a stronger and healthier you, one ready to share a life, not lose yourself into another’s.

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Releasing fear requires accepting uncertainty

October 31, 2010

For almost half a year, I have been pushing, prodding, transforming… all in the hopes of learning a valuable lesson: how to release fear and accept faith. They seem like such simple words, but as you already know, that is FAR from the truth. Fear is ingrained in us from early childhood:

Don’t touch that or you will get hurt!
If you don’t do exactly what I say, you will be punished!
We are on the brink of economic collapse!
WAR is coming!

Every day is a constant deluge of fearful words and expressions. So what is a person to do? With so much despair, it is bound to seep into every nook and cranny of life, infecting your thoughts and actions and making you think the only good choice is a safe choice.

Secret cavesA few months ago, my world went black. In one week, I lost an unfathomable number of… ummm… let’s use the word “things”. While what I lost were not exactly objects, the specifics are not important. What is important is that the Universe decided that I wasn’t living up to my part of the “life purpose” contract I accepted and instead of allowing me to continue to hide behind a bunch of safe things, it was time to face my fear.  Unfortunately, the Universe knew that in order for me to wake up, it had to not only take away my first level of avoidance defense, for I had become pretty good at protecting my inner sanctuary, it had to systematically remove every level that existed.  POOF!

At first, I just sat there stunned.  Was this really happening?  Could it really be that in one single week so much could go wrong?  My self-esteem plummeted and I instantly thought I was being punished.

My initial emotions didn’t last long.  Sure I cried and screamed… talking to anyone that would listen, but I also sat in silence and looked within.  Lucky for me, I’ve learned a few things on my spiritual journey.  Most of all, I have learned how to listen attentively because how things appear at first, may not be how they are meant to be seen.

I swam through the astral realm to discuss my situation with trusted beings beyond the veil, then took those lessons into my meditations, conversing with my Higher Self to find the lesson(s) I needed to learn.

Answers came much quicker than ever before.  FEAR… that was holding me back from taking a giant leap I SO BADLY NEEDED to take.  For years, I had been avoiding this dizzying jump.  Through multiple careers and adventures, whenever I came to this precipice, I would fall back to the safety of my last shelter until I could find another path, thinking that somehow I would avoid the jump all together.  But time after time, as I would build my life anew, I would eventually wind up at the same cliff, staring at the same chasm, and wondering how I would ever cross it.

This time, I decide that there was no going back –it was time to jump!  Only one slight problem… I had NO IDEA how.  I didn’t even know what was on the other side.  The only thing I knew was that the new path I had to take began on the other side of that chasm.  Oh, and I knew one more thing…  I knew I was SCARED OUT OF MY MIND!

Tree of Life out of Post it notes and Tarot cardsFor weeks… months… I would sit with my spiritual toolbox before me and rummage its contents. I asked the Universe for guidance daily, being very clear that if this was the path I needed to take, then I needed help getting there.  Guided by my Higher Self, I used oracling tools such as Tarot to choose the appropriate tools.  Some were extremely esoteric, such as detailed rituals and ancient artifacts, but others more mundane.  Sometimes, I would be guided to ask a specific question in a forum or accept help from an unlikely source.  These were things I would have never done in the past without understanding exactly why, but when you have faith in the process, you just feel your way through it.  There comes a time when you don’t need to know.

Active work gave me valuable information which I took into dreamtime and meditations to process how they should be applied in my life.  I created a feedback loop so every tool used could be evaluated for its efficiency. Notes covered my calendar, simple affirmations reminding me that this process would take time… urging me to find patience. I released all expectations and used other spiritual tools to read the languages the Universe was using to talk to me.  Sacred geometry, numerology, synchronicities… they came at me from every direction, confirming my choices and showing me where to auto-correct when necessary.

I have just landed on the other side of the jump.  My footing is still not solid, but I took the leap.  Before me, I see the path and I know that I am close to being firmly on it…  just a few more steps.  The thing is, I don’t know what those steps are, but that’s OK because I know that the Universe will show me when the time is right.  In the meantime, I work on my balance and fill my Spiritual Toolbox.  Looking around, I see that there are new tools sitting on this side cliff and I excitedly begin the process of learning how to use them.

When the fear comes, because it always comes, I let it wash over me… feeling it touch every part of my body.  When it is done coursing through my veins, I follow it with the strongest tool in my toolbox – LOVE.  I love myself enough to feel the fear and sadness, knowing that it is a necessary step in the process… I love myself enough to know that I am reading the signs correctly…  I love myself enough to know that the fear will pass as long as I focus on my faith.  All I need to get me through this is Universal love… and a healthy helping of patience!

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Are women too impatient?

August 24, 2010

From Kli:

Greetings! I have a question, what are your views on the impatience of women? I personally don’t feel fulfilled, maybe its due to the fact that I haven’t found a partner on my level yet and I am dying to build a family. I have children and am currently pregnant, but I don’t really feel I can handle raising my family without a real man by my side. I feel restless, never satisfied and worried all the time. Is this normal for a woman or is it just me?

Thank you for your time.


Inspirations from Binah:

While it is impossible to fully understand the level at which each gender feels a certain emotion, Kabbalah does provide insight into specific feminine and masculine qualities. Given that each person has their own unique balance of these opposing forces, you can not directly apply them to all men and women, but they do help us see tendencies and ways to work with them.

In general, the female energy seeks understanding through logic and protects her people with the sword of righteousness. Because a person with high levels of feminine energy knows that in times of need, she will do what must be done, she has the confidence to give herself permission to truly “feel”. When there is an imbalance of this energy, it can seem as if she is never satisfied, but in balance, it provides a healthy curiosity to continuously look inward for improvement. Introspection will lead you to answers yet to be understood, such as why you fear raising your family alone.

At the top of the feminine pillar sits Binah, archetypical female energy of Understanding, which pulls you toward finding meaning in every situation. Geburah fuels the Strength you need to defend your family and Hod provides you with the tool of Splendor, your logical mind. In perfect union with their masculine counterparts, each energy is stabilized, revealing Beauty. This harmony will assuage your fears and release expectations, thus giving you the satisfaction you so desperately seek. Imbalanced, they can manifest in restlessness, worry and dissatisfaction.

Balance is an alchemical cocktail unique to you. While a partner may provide some pieces to the puzzle, a greater number will come from within. Once you discover your individual levels of masculine and feminine energy, you will have the ingredients to create the best “you” possible.


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Fear is holding me in place, what do I do?

July 21, 2010

From Maggie:

I have a goal. I have had this goal for a really long time, but I just can’t seem to get there. I don’t know what to do. When I try to do something toward my goal, I get so scared that I run back to what I already know, which is in the opposite direction of my goal. How to I get over the fear and trust in the path the Universe has set for me?


Inspirations from Binah:

The astrological configuration of the planets at this moment in time is bringing much fear into our energy field; that which once seemed fun and exciting is wrapped in a thick layer of anxiety. Knowing this physical predisposition will help you overcome it – for when you acknowledge what is before you, can choose the best tool to surpass it.

Begin by cleansing your physical self with herbs. You can choose sage or lemongrass for this work, lettings its smoke circle your body as you visualize this fearful energy dissipating. Chanting a simple phrase, such as “I call upon the powers of the Universe to transmute all fear energy into productive energy to be used toward reaching my goal”, will further direct your will.

Once you are clear, it is time to specify what help you need from the Universe. Many times, attention is placed on the final destination, but it is the path to get there that you seek. Stand within your sacred space, light a single candle in your hands, and as you stare into the flame, ask the Universe to reveal the entrance to the path and how to begin your journey. You need only discover your first step in order to dislodge the planetary glue that is holding you in place.

Over the next week, trust that the Universe is revealing how to get to your goal and consciously look for the signs. Use all your senses, for the answer may come through physical and spiritual mediums. Look to your Higher Self or personal oracling tools to confirm what you are receiving. With the goal in mind and your focus on the path, soon you will find the map. All that is required is to start walking.


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How do I embrace faith?

June 10, 2010

From Michele:

I want to release my fears and embrace faith, but how?


Inspirations from Binah:

There are fears all around us, haunting our every move. In some cases they provide valuable information about what lurks behind an unseen corner, but in most cases, they come from a lack of clarity on what we are supposed to accomplish in this lifetime. Compound that with every negative emotion you have ever had, and soon your suitcases are filled with enough fear that you can barely carry them around.

Every day you wake up, open your eyes and look around at what the day will bring. In that moment of unconscious thought, you make a choice to live. And since that choice is unconscious, you forget to make the next most important choice… HOW to live. To release that baggage and live the life you want, you have three steps to take:

Go into meditation or dreamtime and explore what you are here on this planet to accomplish. Let your mind wander without bounds and list everything you love. Think about who you are today and who you wish to become tomorrow. Avoid censorship or concerns over what is possible, let only your most empowered self speak. Be patient and give yourself all the time you need to create this list. Once you feel that you have it, that you truly know what you are here to do, set it aside and take the second step.

Go back into meditation or dreamtime and explore all that holds you back from accomplishing the list above. Once again release all censorship and be brutally honest with yourself. This list is for you alone, so include every incident and feeling that comes to mind. Be extensive in your search for fears, but do not relive them. Write them down as if you were making an inventory before shipping them away.

With your two lists in hand, it is time to take the final step. Take your list of fears and find their antithesis. List, one by one, what feeling you would replace each fear with in order to eradicate it. You can create affirmations with your new words, embed them into symbols that you place in your home, or charge crystals with these powerful emotions. Pick any tool in your toolbox that will act as a constant reminder of the courage you now have. With that task complete, in sacred ritual, burn away all the old fears and scatter the ashes across the earth so that they may be transmuted into fuel for your healing.

With your final two lists, all you want to accomplish and your words with moxie, you have released all the fears and are consciously choosing to embrace faith… faith that you can accomplish what you want in your highest and best good.


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Evil only prospers when good men look away

April 9, 2010

From Fraser:

I have lost a friend to darkness. He’s walked into it and been seduced by it. He’s now serving two and a half years. His crimes where against the innocent and most vulnerable in our society. I read about him in my local paper, it was bad. He committed crimes against me too. There’s a comments section, I’ve read it. His victims have said their comments, don’t blame them, I have seen a darkness at work here, but i am reminded that to comment on his case could bring anger directed against me and my family for being associated with him. For myself, i will take the flakk, but for my family. Should i comment? Hence the title


Inspirations from Binah:

The decision on whether or not to comment relies on many factors. First you must determine your motivation for commenting. Is it to show people another side of your friend, one that was lost when he accepted the darkness? If your intentions are pure, and you present your comments understanding that there is great anger by those he hurt, then you should not fear retribution. Be respectful of their feelings and do not blame the darkness, for it was your friend who chose to accept it.

If you need help with your wording, ask the angels to guide you. You can also call upon Archangel Gabriel who provides a link to the communication of Truth, Harmony and Balance. Grab paper and a pen/pencil, sit in a comfortable position with your hand ready to write, go into meditation. Ask Archangel Gabriel to help you formulate the best words for your comment. Remove your personal thoughts and just flow the words onto the paper. Write until you have written all there is to say.

After the words are on the paper, read through them carefully and begin the editing process. Take things from the pure language of the angels into the language of man. Think about this from the position of the reader, carefully crafting the words so that your message contains only the purity and love you possess for your friend and his victims. When you are ready, you can post it or not, the choice is up to you. The energy has been released into the universe for all to benefit from.


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