From Sofia:
I’m not sure if my question really blurs into two…
My first issue is that I have thankfully been blessed with spiritual experiences, including OBEs and such where I have met my spirit guides but I have never been able to bring on these experiences, even though I’ve attempted different techniques in the past, from inducing OBEs, meditation, prayer etc. it doesn’t seem to work for me. And I have tried alot of techniques.
There have been times in my life where I have really needed to hear from my guides more than just in the everyday intuition based way but even if I just leave it up to them it doesn’t seem to work. Even if I totally let it go. After a while I begin to doubt and so, my question is this. How can I rediscover that spiritual connection that I find so hard to initiate?
Also, I admit I have lost a lot of faith in finding a soulmate as it were. I’m speaking romantically. I’ve tried getting advice during OBEs and such but either I can’t seem to find my guides (even if I call them) or can’t get out of them what I really want to know.
I guess after seven years of fruitless searching I’m kinda angry. I know its meant to happen when the time is right and trust me I’ve tried to be as open as possible but that has only led to nasty endings when I’ve sort of ‘tricked’ myself into thinking maybe this is who I want in my life when I know deep down that my heart isn’t in it. I also have heard so many times that you have to be happy with yourself and I am, but I’m human and I am designed to love and be loved romantically. So my question is, how can I find my soulmate/s? I mean literally as in the soul group type set up, and not just those who are friends and family in this life.
Inspirations from Binah:
Your spiritual connection is something that is with you always and while it may seem as if there are times when you are not connected, just the fact that you know it exists means you are. One question to ponder is whether you feel connected when you don’t “need” to hear from your guides? When you only turn to your spirituality in a crisis, you may have a hard timing hearing because you have not developed a symbiotic language.
To create that language, you must first hear the way your spirit guides currently communicate. That may sound cryptic, but it just means that you have to accept that the way your guides speak to you may not be the way you envisioned it. Intuition proves that you are connected and receiving messages. This could be the only method your guides have to communicate. Instead of trying to force them to contact you the way you want, take the method they currently use and expand from there.
Which senses does your intuition come through? Have you tried expanding it to another sense? For example, if you usually just know something, the next few times it happens close your eyes and focus on what you are hearing. Take the clairsentience and create maps to expand your clairaudience. If you usually see things and are clairvoyant, then create maps to how you are feeling. You can also study sacred geometry, gematria or any other “language” that allows you to decipher the messages you are receiving from spirit through the world around you. With each exercise, you expand your capacity for receiving messages and give your guides new ways to speak with you.
The blocks before you finding a romantic partner cross new lines. Though you may think that your guides are not providing you with answers, their silence is your answer. Just as you need to learn the language of your spirit guides, you must accept that a soulmate may look at first very different from what you visualized. Each of us has a circle of soulmates that are a part of our world. Accept each person that comes into your life without expectation and let the relationship develop organically. What may seem like friendship, may blossom into romantic love. We have no way of knowing why a person was sent into our lives so do not make a judgment. Release the anger and enjoy what you are getting… this may just give you what you want.
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