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Will I be punished for my negative thoughts?

June 7, 2011
fragile mind leftover

Fragile Mind Leftover

Manuel asks:

It is my essential belief that the universe returns to us that which we ourselves put out, however we are all of us imperfect and at times though we struggle intellectually not to wish ill upon someone our own hurt may overwhelm us and we find ourselves thinking unkind thoughts of another. Do you believe that if we send out negative thoughts towards someone while struggling to NOT do so the Universe will nonetheless still, for lack of a better word, “punish” us? This is to say if I WANT to be able to wish someone well, but am not yet able to do so are there spiritual consequences I will reap in the interim?

Inspirations from Binah replies:

Human manifestation begins in the mind as a combination of vocabulary and intention. In the psyche, a complex game is being played that mixes together who we are and who we are becoming. Our past provides perspective , and if we are open, we invite additional help from physical and non-physical forces. Each component is vital in order to balance the voluntary and involuntary systems  at play.

Transformation is a continual process. Sometimes, even with the best of intentions, it is difficult to bring what we think we “should” do into alignment with what we are doing. And the reason for this is quite simple: there is still a lesson to be learned. Brute force can only take you so far. You must journey through the entire tree to reach the harmonious point at which Wisdom and Understanding create Knowledge and Mercy converts Judgment into Discernment. Once you have found this balance, you will see the Beauty in every  situation, allowing Thoughts and Emotions to synch in Action.

Learning can be a slow process. We must experience each step, reading the Universal messages and integrating them into daily life. So while this is going on, what do you do about the random (or sometimes not so random) negative thought that escapes before you have a chance to transform it?

You accept — You forgive — You search for the lesson — and… You transmute.

The Universe does not “punish” the seeker, she merely holds up a mirror for us to see the reflection of our actions. Sometimes, those actions come with consequences. If you accept and learn from them, you will find negative effects to be fleeting, and after the sting wears off, you will probably be grateful for the revelation. You see, each lesson allows you to see with clarity the mechanism of the Universe and what part your thoughts and actions play in the development of the reality we are co-creating. It is only when you resist or ignore comprehending the cause that consequences are prolonged, and can escalate into chronic issues.

Your question alone shows that you are on a path to discover the light hidden in the darkness of your psyche. Just as a small child learning to walk may get scratched or bruised when he falls, you too will encounter a few Universal pains, but they will heal quickly. With each step you will learn how to balance and control your power, knowing when to treat yourself with compassion vs. discipline. Listen to your internal guidance and treat each adversity as an opportunity to be educated, then apply to daily life what you have learned, turning lessons into growth.

 

 

If you are looking for advice on a specific question, browse through the questions asked under Recent Advice or submit your own question. All questions are encouraged, for when you are in the thick of things, there is no such thing as a small problem.

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Who lead me down this road?

June 5, 2011
Footprints in the snow - Colorado

Footprints in the snow

Vicki asks:

Years ago I followed foot prints in the snow down the road and into the woods, the foot prints led me to a slash pile, there was no other tracks leading away from the slash pile, there was no way for whomever’s tracks they were to leave the pile, it has baffled me for years as to who led me to this slash pile and why?


Inspirations from Binah replies:

When we look upon a think blanket of snow, we naturally think of purity. We use the term “virgin snow” to describe the scene — not just because it is undisturbed, but because it is a blank slate that can contain anything. The snow covers what lies beneath, hiding the unimportant and forcing us to understand the significance of that which cannot be seen. Where the average traveler sees nothingness, the seeker relies on spiritual senses to “see” the details and decipher the clues.

In life, crossroads usually have many avenues. They are littered with the debris of the seekers that have come before you, each item providing clues as to what you may find if you travel this road. By contrast, your path showed you only one thing, that someone traveled before you. You have no other information to cloud your judgment or pre-dispose you to what you may find. It is a pure experience meant only for you.

While knowing who led you to the slash pile may be interesting, focusing on that prevents you from seeing the importance of the experience. You were guided down a virgin path for a reason. What do you remember of the walk? What type of trees were part of the pile? How did it feel when you reached the end of the footprints?

In mythology, trees offer us a living reminder of events beyond our comprehension. They are the silent witnesses to history’s greatest victories and failures. But your trees were not alive, they were cut down and left behind. What stories were stored in the bark of their trucks that needed to be silenced? Are their roots still alive to share the tale with others?

It is the trees that provide the answers to your questions. Flow back in your memory to the day’s events and re-connect to the trees sitting in that pile. Feel the elemental energy around them and ask what you need to learn. If you find the elementals to be elusive, let your Higher Self be your guide; they tried to communicate with you before and it didn’t work, so they may be hesitant to share for fear you will not listen.

With perseverance and kindness, the elementals will find a way to share their story with you. Listen carefully to the tales of the wood, for it symbolizes a relationship that has become solid and long-lasting, representing growing strength. Before its power decays, it is choosing to pass its knowledge to you.

 

 

If you are looking for advice on a specific question, browse through the questions asked under Recent Advice or submit your own question. All questions are encouraged, for when you are in the thick of things, there is no such thing as a small problem.

 

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How do I take my career to the next level?

May 22, 2011

Ayamanatara shares:

I feel ready to take my career to the next level. What do I need to do?


Inspirations from Binah replies:

For many of us, our careers and lives blend into one creating a rich landscape filled with experiences and inspiration. It is through this wonderful embrace of “who you are” and “what you do” that you can create without limits, turning dreams into reality. It is here where the heart of an artist resides, for it takes artistry and creative thought to turn a job into a meaningful career that fuels the life you want to live.

Along the path, there may be obstacles that prevent you from allowing yourself to reach the dizzying heights you long for. Yes, work-life balance is important, but that only applies to work done without emotion. A career can be different, if you want it to be. A career can be a part of who you are, converting ordinary work into life purpose, and easily showing you how to balance all the great loves in your life.

It is clear that you are ready to move away from the thought of a job and into a career that fulfills you. Equally clear is that there is something blocking the way; something hiding in the shadows that must be exposed and cleared if you are to continue forward. Let us take a walk through the landscape of your internal self in search of answers. I have a feeling there are trusted guides nearby.

A Brilliant Meadow of Delights

You first notice the deep vegetation covering the ground. The landscape has changed. It is rich and alive with grasses and plants. The meadow feels welcoming and invites you to relax. There is a light breeze, carrying with it the smell of fresh lemons. You feel safe and protected.

As you wander across the meadow, you hear the sound of rocks being moved. You walk closer and see a man creating a circle out of stones. Silently, you watch him work. Even though he is bent down, you can tell that he is tall, heavy and strong. He is wearing an tunic and trousers in earth tones. He looks at one with the earth, and yet with the unmistakable energy of someone not from this plane. With the last rock in place, the circle is complete. Almost immediately, a layer of meadowsweet begins to grow in between the stones filling the circle with the vibrant energy full of life.

With his work complete, your host looks at you and waves you in. You step over the meadowsweet covered rocks  and into the circle. The energy here is crisp, as if it just rained. You look at your host and feel like you are in the presence of your Holy Guardian Angel. He chuckles and says, “I get that a lot. I am Sandalphon, welcome to my Kingdom.”

“I can see that you are in search of something, a key that will give you the ability to overcome the inertia you feel with your career. It is important to be grounded, but too much of that can lead to laziness. It is important to find the balance, something you are currently lacking. I think I know just the person who can help you.”

He steps out and disappears into a brilliant light. You sit in the circle and feel the physical world around you through all your senses. Ideas and images keep swirling around, showing you the physical barriers preventing you from reaching your career goals. You make note of each one, silently asking for guidance on what you must do to overcome them.

Sandalphon returns and he is followed by someone, or something. The light is so bright you can barely keep your eyes open. Sandalphon turns to the other being and says with a humorous tone, “OK, Mr Wizard, you are brilliant. Now can you turn the light show down a notch so we can actually see you?” With a chuckle, the light dims and you clearly see the man behind the light. Even though he is laughing, you can feel an otherworldliness to him. There are no words to describe what you see and feel, it is as if all the power of the Universe is before you and yet, you also feel like he is all the power within you. He is pure Union with everything.

Sandalphon breaks the spell by saying, “May I present to you my brother, Metatron.” While there is still the same vegetation within the circle, you notice that there is now a row of flowering almond trees just beyond the meadowsweet covered stones. The air is lighter and perfumed by the almonds.

“My brother tells me you are feeling a little stagnant in your career progress. Fear not, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes, in our quest to feel stable and secure, we trap ourselves into a routine. To complete the Great Work, you need to regain your sense of wonder and use creative imagination to create change.”

Sandalphon continues his brother’s thoughts, “You see, while I provide what you need to build in the physical world, my brother provides the gift of clear and perceptive thought. This insight will allow you to recognize and resolve the obstacles on your career path. Together, we aid you in co-creating your reality in harmony with your life purpose so that you can feel safe even when taking a risk. Without risk, there is no growth.”

Metatron steps forward and hands you a single almond. Sandalphon lays some meadowsweet over it. “We are brothers in thought and deed. Allow your thoughts to flow up and down the Tree of Life, bringing dreams down to reality and raising reality to reach your dreams.”

Metatron turns to his brother, “It is time to leave. We must continue our work.” He turns to you, “Anytime you need us, you have only to think of our gifts. We are with you always.” With that, they both turn and exit the circle. You sit in focused meditation and follow their advice, exploring where you are, what is keeping you there and how to get to where you want to go.

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How can my partner and I communicate better?

May 13, 2011

Marty writes:

There are certain issues my partner and I just do not see eye to eye on and I think it has to do with not communicating effectively. We are so alike in our thinking, but our communication is not always the best. Any tips?


Inspirations from Binah replies:

Communication is the cornerstone of a good relationship. Whether with friends, family or loved ones, it is important to feel like you can talk freely about your feelings, instead of hiding behind doubt and fear. While you and your partner may be very alike, until you learn how to share through honest dialogue, you will constantly feel like there is something “missing” in the relationship.

Speaking your mind is often easier said than done, and sometimes for very good reason. While we want to be honest, there is no doubt that there are some topics you just don’t discuss in mixed company. In my family, politics is completely off limits. After years of arguing our positions, we have learned that this broad subject only leads to bad feelings and hours of angrily talking in circles. But what we have learned by working through our communication issues is that while political talk is out, specific events can be discussed if they come from a place of curiosity and desire to understand the other’s point of view. We know that we are different, therefore we don’t kid ourselves by thinking we can change the other person, but talking about something concrete gives us an opportunity to hear another person’s thoughts and ask probing questions with respect, not anger. We often act like scientists attempting experiments we know will fail in order to learn what caused the results to be different from what we wanted.

When you say that you and your partner don’t see eye to eye, is it the communication style or subject matter? Style can be modified as long as both parties are willing to give a little. If you think fast and your partner requires more time, you can try a method such as email or chat which gives each person an opportunity to write a response at their own pace. It may seem informal, but if each of you process at a different speed, then text will even out the playing field. It will also give someone that is hot-headed an opportunity to cool down before saying something hurtful. In other words, think outside the box and use all the communication tools at your disposal. Contrary to popular thought, face-to-face is not always the best way to talk.

If you want communication to flow, watch your language for words that can come off as judgmental, angry or snippy. Focus on compassion and love, even if you don’t like what you are hearing. This will encourage honesty and openness.

One way to get to the heart of your communication issues and explore new solutions is with the use of twin crystals. When two crystals share a common side, such as two pieces/points that were originally side-by-side in a cluster, these are called twins. Just like biological twins, the two crystals will have shared DNA, creating an unbreakable bond between them that facilitates the transfer of energy.

chinese quartz crystal cluster

chinese quartz crystal cluster by kafka4prez

Twin Crystal

Communication

For this work, you will need a pair of twin, clear quartz crystals. Clear quartz acts as an amplifier, ensuring that you amplify a person’s thoughts and feelings without adding any properties from the crystal. The crystals should be purified and have an equal, balanced energy.

Sit in front of the person you wish to communicate with. Create a united sacred space, calling upon any guides you wish to help you through this process. It is highly recommended that the Higher Selves of each person be invoked and that there is an explicit ask to help facilitate the conversation.

When you are ready, the first person that wishes to ask a question holds one crystal in his/her left hand while the other person holds the twin in his/her right hand. The left hand is the receiving side, for this is the person that is seeking an answer. The right hand is the giving side, the person supplying the answer. Coming from a place of curiosity and compassion, ask the first question. Choose your words carefully, removing any assumptions or judgment. Allow time to receive an answer through the crystal, without the giver speaking. The receiver should express freely, channeling the words as they come.

When you have received all that has been given, begin a dialog. Communicate freely, yet with respect. Remember, you are trying to understand your partner, not fight for change. This is an opportunity to speak and be heard. If you need clarification and can’t find it in the discussion, ask another question through the crystal. Ask as many questions as necessary to help facilitate a dialog, switching who asks as needed.

As you work through this process, take note of the things that flow well in the conversation and points that were heated. Make adjustments accordingly to maintain a balanced energy flow. If tensions rise, take a deep breath and feel a blue, calming energy wash over the space between you.

Use twin crystals to talk not only about specific subjects , but also about your individual communication styles so you can learn how to improve your relationship. Crystals break through the barriers created by our defense mechanisms, allowing vulnerable expression and compassionate healing.

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Longing for lost love/first love

May 5, 2011

Mun asks:

I am 42 and married and with 2 children. I have been having some marital issues stemming from a lack of intimacy and lack of financial support from my husband for the past few years, but I kept all these issues/problems to myself until last October when I burst out. At the same time, due to not wanting to face reality and wanting to escape from it all, I started thinking and looking up online a lost love from 21 years ago, my very first love.

There was so much love and passion with my first BF that it all came back when I saw his name online as I materialized his existence (I made believe he was dead for all these years). I know this is silly, but I have not stopped thinking about my first BF since last August and the vivid memories I have of him are from the past and I wonder how he is doing today and want to see him so badly, but I must control myself because I don’t want to do something stupid. I’m so glad he is out of state and reachable only by plane, but thoughts have come to mind to pick up the phone and catch up with him and arrange for a face to face meeting. I really miss him and feel so guilty as I am now married, but in a relationship where the love that I once felt for my spouse if slowly fading away.

I know this is not healthy and need some advice. My spouse is aware of our issues and is working on putting his act together, but I am very confused with what is going on with my feeling and emotions. Do I call my ex to put some closure to a relationship from 21 years ago or just let it go and live life as usual? I am afraid that not knowing about my ex is more of a torture now that he is back in my mind than to pretend that he does not exist. It took me about 8 years to move on and forget him when I was in my 20′s, but it only took minutes to bring him back to my mind and memory and I feel that I cannot easily remove him from my psych if I don’t put a closure to the relationship that I once had with him unless I contact him. I appreciate the advice you can provide… thanks!


Inspirations from Binah replies:

A friend recently said to me that with social networks, you can never really escape your past.  Unless you change your name or never go online, gone are the days when you graduate from high school and leave behind your small town.  If you are online, anyone can find you… and with a little perseverance, you can find anyone.  I tend to think this is a good thing because it makes us face the past instead of running away from it.  I mean, how can you really move forward in life if you have a festering wound you keep ignoring?

Like it or not, your feelings for your first boyfriend exists.  Judging or labeling them as unhealthy is only going to add confusion, so release those thoughts.  As human beings, we have a tendency to romanticize the past.  While there is nothing wrong with this, it is important to recognize that our memories are not always accurate.  Basic defense mechanisms minimize pain and maximize beauty, this is why we often find ourselves repeating hurtful patterns — we forget the suffering until we are back in it.

Regardless of what “may” be, until you work through your own issues, there is no point in contacting your first BF.  Seeing him again will not make the problems in your marriage disappear.  Now is the time to look honestly at yourself to find the thought patterns and behaviors that have contributed to the marital discord.  Once these have been healed, you can look at the situation with fresh eyes and determine whether you leave your marriage to pursue the past or close that door forever.

Sit in the present moment and acknowledge that you and your first BF shared something special.  Give yourself permission to reconnect to those feelings of young love and wonder without attaching to the person.  Your goal is to bring this energy back into your life, exploring all the avenues that can take you there.

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White tailed fawn close

Your Spirit Animal is Born

Spring is upon us in the northern hemisphere, so it is appropriate to call upon the animal kingdom to help you.  In the woods, a fawn has been born to help guide your way.  This spirit animal is here to gently teach you.  A deer never pushes for change, rather it nudges you in the direction of acceptance, for the balance of true power lays in love and compassion.

This spring, consciously connect to your fawn in search of learning and healing.  You can place a figurine next to your bed to guide you in dream time, meditate on a picture or go into nature and commune with one in the physical.  Every time you connect, allow the  fawn’s energy to melt the barriers that separate you from seeing your patterns.  Let your spirit animal shower you with unconditional love as you work through your fears and pain.

When a deer totem enters your world, a new innocence and freshness in about to be awakened. New adventures are just around the corner and there will be an opportunity to express the gentle love that will open new doors for you.  -Ina Woolcott


When Summer begins, your fawn will have reached a new level of maturity, and with its growth you will have found the answers you seek.  In sacred ceremony, thank the fawn for all you have been taught and allow it to return to nature.  Your deer will always be with you in spirit, providing loving support and gentle guidance.  You will learn how to listen to your heart and recognize that sometimes the higher good requires a sacrifice.  Only when you are free of expectations can you find the alternative path that will lead you to your goal.



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