Are women too impatient?
August 24, 2010
From Kli:
Greetings! I have a question, what are your views on the impatience of women? I personally don’t feel fulfilled, maybe its due to the fact that I haven’t found a partner on my level yet and I am dying to build a family. I have children and am currently pregnant, but I don’t really feel I can handle raising my family without a real man by my side. I feel restless, never satisfied and worried all the time. Is this normal for a woman or is it just me?
Thank you for your time.
Inspirations from Binah:
While it is impossible to fully understand the level at which each gender feels a certain emotion, Kabbalah does provide insight into specific feminine and masculine qualities. Given that each person has their own unique balance of these opposing forces, you can not directly apply them to all men and women, but they do help us see tendencies and ways to work with them.
In general, the female energy seeks understanding through logic and protects her people with the sword of righteousness. Because a person with high levels of feminine energy knows that in times of need, she will do what must be done, she has the confidence to give herself permission to truly “feel”. When there is an imbalance of this energy, it can seem as if she is never satisfied, but in balance, it provides a healthy curiosity to continuously look inward for improvement. Introspection will lead you to answers yet to be understood, such as why you fear raising your family alone.
At the top of the feminine pillar sits Binah, archetypical female energy of Understanding, which pulls you toward finding meaning in every situation. Geburah fuels the Strength you need to defend your family and Hod provides you with the tool of Splendor, your logical mind. In perfect union with their masculine counterparts, each energy is stabilized, revealing Beauty. This harmony will assuage your fears and release expectations, thus giving you the satisfaction you so desperately seek. Imbalanced, they can manifest in restlessness, worry and dissatisfaction.
Balance is an alchemical cocktail unique to you. While a partner may provide some pieces to the puzzle, a greater number will come from within. Once you discover your individual levels of masculine and feminine energy, you will have the ingredients to create the best “you” possible.
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