Is there a force field preventing me from a relationship?
January 17, 2010
From Terry:
I have been single for 12 years and in the last 2 years I have been wanting to have a relationship again but it is like I have a force field around me because I do not have any men even come near me or reply to my profile online. What can I do?
Inspirations from Binah:
We create protective barriers around us in times of need. Whether it is to heal a past wound or to give ourselves an opportunity to focus energy, these barriers are not always created consciously. Whatever the reason for its creation, it is only when you truly feel ready to emerge from this beautiful cocoon of safety, that you can continue your journey fully exposed to the world.
The conscious realization that you have this barrier is the first step in its disintegration. A message has been sent from your unconscious to your conscious mind saying that you are ready, the lesson has been learned. From here, you must discover its original purpose and ensure that you have what you need to move forward in your full power and without fear.
Given that you created this barrier without realizing it, this part of the journey may take some time. Ask your Higher Self for guidance in exploring the field around you and what steps are still needed. Keep a healthy distance from the energy that required the barrier in the first place by allowing your Higher Self to mediate the process, thus ensuring that you are not swept back to where you just evolved from. Remember, this is now part of your past, and there is where it should remain.
Use your self-exploration tools (meditation, astral travel, tarot, cord cuttings, energy work…) to uncover all aspects of this barrier, for the deeper your understanding, the quicker its high walls will dissipate. There will come a moment of enlightenment when your conscious and unconscious becomes an open tunnel and the last piece of understanding reaches its final destination. It is at this time that the barrier will disintegrate forever, allowing the energy that you have been protecting yourself from to fully flow in harmony with the world around you. When this happens, not only will the men come, but you will find that you are ready to enjoy all that they bring.
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