I’m in love with my best friend, do I risk the friendship?
June 21, 2009
From Sarah:
Hello I was wondering if you know what I should do.. I’m in love with my best friend and he is so oblivious! I love him with all my heart and soul but don’t know if I could risk our friend ship….. I just don’t know what to do..
Inspirations from Binah:
There are few reasons why love should be kept secret. There is no risk to your friendship if you express your feelings honestly and without attachment. Love your friend freely and ask for nothing in return. Let the love of friendship you have blossom into what it is meant to be. Don’t worry about the future, live for the present and the rest will take care of itself.
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Well I guess I’d test the waters first if you’re that worried about losing him as a friend. As to how I don’t know..perhaps mentioning to him that the two of you spend so much time together, it’s like dating…little asides to see what his reaction will be. I’ve been where you are and it’s rough. Good luck.