I feel like I’m losing my best friend
May 31, 2009
From Lyla:
hello i was wondering how to solve my problem. i have a bestfriend but she always seems to be with other people which i don’t mind. i also have a lot of other close friends that are close with her. she’s always with them and I’m not invited for instance
2 of her friends and my friends went out shopping. i didn’t know anything about this and found out on msn and it said someone snogged someone and all 3 of them said it. and i was relly upset because i didn’t get to be there and they r now keeping a secret from me. now today all 3 of them are going out. and im the person not invited but i know about it and they know i know about. i feel like i am losing my bestfriend what shall i do. and always being left out.
Inspirations from Binah:
True friendship requires honesty, therefore your first step should be to talk to your best friend. It is often the case that friends don’t realize they are hurting you. Don’t jump to conclusions about why you haven’t been included recently – it could be that they thought you were busy or couldn’t go out. Let them know you’d like to hang out with them and give them a chance to respond.
Best friends are special relationships. Some last a life-time, while others remain just long enough to show you something magickal. Though it is always hard when the relationship changes, this is part of what makes them so special – the ability to adapt to different phases of life. Through open communication you have the chance to rebuild what you once had. No matter what happens, you will always have the memories of the great times you spent together.
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