Archive for May, 2009
May 31, 2009
From Linette:
Is it wrong to be gay if your happy with the person you are with?
…i mean if this person is making you happy..well i have a girl friend and she makes me feel wonderful…she makes me feel like I’m a queen..when I’m with her I’m the happiest girl in the world. she gets me what i need especially that love that i don’t get from my family… is it wrong to feel that way especially about a girl?
Inspirations from Binah:
Gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, transvestite, square, rebel, freak… it is all right as long as you are loved, safe and happy. We each hold a unique mix of masculine and feminine energy that does not always match our physical appearance. That mix changes on a day-to-day basis depending on what is going on in our lives. It is that energy that you are truly attracted to, not the physical shell, therefore labels are unnecessary.
It would be easy to write pages and pages to show why your happiness is wonderful, but in the end all that matters is what you think. Find the place where you can enjoy being who you are. If you encounter any resistance, remember that love will show you the path to acceptance.
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May 31, 2009
From Lyla:
hello i was wondering how to solve my problem. i have a bestfriend but she always seems to be with other people which i don’t mind. i also have a lot of other close friends that are close with her. she’s always with them and I’m not invited for instance
2 of her friends and my friends went out shopping. i didn’t know anything about this and found out on msn and it said someone snogged someone and all 3 of them said it. and i was relly upset because i didn’t get to be there and they r now keeping a secret from me. now today all 3 of them are going out. and im the person not invited but i know about it and they know i know about. i feel like i am losing my bestfriend what shall i do. and always being left out.
Inspirations from Binah:
True friendship requires honesty, therefore your first step should be to talk to your best friend. It is often the case that friends don’t realize they are hurting you. Don’t jump to conclusions about why you haven’t been included recently – it could be that they thought you were busy or couldn’t go out. Let them know you’d like to hang out with them and give them a chance to respond.
Best friends are special relationships. Some last a life-time, while others remain just long enough to show you something magickal. Though it is always hard when the relationship changes, this is part of what makes them so special – the ability to adapt to different phases of life. Through open communication you have the chance to rebuild what you once had. No matter what happens, you will always have the memories of the great times you spent together.
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May 29, 2009
Inspirations from Binah is officially syndicated!!! You can find it every month as part of the Voyager Growth emag from the London College of Spirituality. Sign up for Voyager Growth.
Voyager Growth is very excited to launch a regular spiritual advice column. We are linking up with healer and spiritual teacher, yvette Soler the voice behind, Inspirations from Binah… Read the first issue here!
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May 27, 2009
From Matthew:
I’ve heard much about being with the “Oneness” of the Universe or what ever it may be called. And based on other peoples testimonies it seems like the place to be. Is there a feeling of bliss when your consciousness get’s there…. like an undeniable “this is it” type feeling?
I meditate and feel like I’m closer to a pure consciousness through Theta waves (as well as experience psychic abilities), but its only a state I achieve while meditating, temporary, and achievable only with great focus. Is it possible to bring this consciousness to myself quicker while functioning daily routines in the “real world”?
Inspirations from Binah:
Indigenous African practices teach that Spirit is a part of everything. From the trees outside to the table in your home, it is all connected to Spirit. Stop for a moment and make a spiritual connection with everything that is around you – that includes your computer, your books, and even the glass you were drinking from. All is a part of Source, all is a part of you, all is a part of the Oneness.
As you go through your day, when you feel disconnected and alone, set your eyes on one object and make a connection to its Spirit. Do this often and soon you will discover that the feeling of connectedness is with you always. Each object will provide you the energy you need to maintain a constant connection to the Universe. Even your daily routines will feed your connection since they, too, are connected to Source.
In an interview about his book “Conversations with God”, Neale Donald Walsch was asked how he maintains the feeling of Oneness. His answer was quite simple, his connection to Source is constant and therefore does not require any effort. Though the journey to get there may seem long, as some point you have to let go and trust that you are connected at every moment. Only then will you realize that the feeling has been with you all along.
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May 27, 2009
From Pickerrick
It seems to me that we need an objective definition of crime. Here is the problem and it’s bigger than marijuana even. If a government can say that a plant that grows naturally out of the ground is illegal, then the government can make anything illegal – anything at all! It seems to me that any definition of crime would include a victim and where there is no victim, there is no crime.
And the argument that smoking marijuana supports drug violence is circular since if marijuana were not illegal, there would be no illegal drug violence associated with it ~~how do we wake up the programmed ones???
From Inspirations from Binah:
The answer to your question lies is understanding and education. Regardless of which side of the issue you stand on, you can only create a bridge between them when you understand why one would choose the other. There is no absolute right or wrong stance, but there is free will. Yet many who exercise their free will forget the next, and most important piece – personal responsibility.
The overall goals are the same, give people the most amount of freedom while keeping the public safe. Once you realize that you are looking at the same problem, you can work together to redraft laws so that they cover the need for personal responsibility without encroaching unnecessarily on free will. Show that you believe each person should take responsibility for his/her actions and you will find people willing to listen to your views of the issue.
From the inside out changes can be made. They require you to open your mind and find the reason why the laws exist as they are. Each person that voted for the law, felt that there was a need. Educate them on why the need has changed; be a part of the system you want to create. When you speak with knowledge, respect and understanding, all will listen.
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May 25, 2009
From Oxgene:
The reason I seek your help coz lately I have been throw a very, very tough experience and its effecting me very badly. I even suffer from post traumatic stress disorder its very hard to explain, YOU know when sometimes you feel that you are going to blast any time soon it happens to me all the time & I can notice it visually. I mean each time I remember what happened to me my veins gets enlarged and I can feel the blood flood, there is too much pain & agony inside of me, I want to get rid of it and I cant my soul are burning and the more I try to carry on and forget every thing happened the more harder it gets. I just want the f@$k out of all of this, its killing me slowly and I cant shut my mind of it. I went to the doctor and he told me you have a great negative power inside of you and your brain, so my question is do you have any practice that can help me lose this great power? I tried so many things but it seems its not working out properly, I became very aggressive and non patient person always on the edge even with the closet people to my heart some times I feel my brain and my skull is dividing in two halves, seriously I don’t know what to do?
From Inspirations from Binah:
I admire your courage. Even with this negativity pulling at you from the inside you continue to seek help. The human mind carries much information and each piece has a reason. The smallest detail that we often think is just useless knowledge carries a key to some unknown lock which will one day present itself.
Your negativity is the lock, the question is, where is the key? To find it, you are going to have to go deep into the abyss of Da’at, the well of your hidden knowledge. The exploration will be hard, but once you obtain the key you can open the lock and allow the pain and negativity to float freely out of your mind.
I encourage you to find a healer to work directly with you to find the source of your pain. There are many different techniques, including conventional therapy, holistic practitioners and energy work. Seek out the one that speaks to you. You may even find that it will take a combination of them to figure out the mystery. The most important part is to not give up. Though it feels like you are closing yourself off to others, reaching out here and to your doctor proves that you are not. Open your heart and allow others to help you through your process. Yes, you will get angry and aggressive at times, but those that love you will understand that this is a necessary step in order for you to find true freedom from this negativity.
When you are ready, cut the final cords that cling to you and pull you into the abyss. The practitioner to do this will present herself when the time is right, accept her and allow all that holds you back to finally be released and transmuted. In the end, the amazing person that you are will once again emerge, ready to accept the world with open arms. Blessings to you on your process.
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May 25, 2009
From Carole:
I am so interested in what you do and you can consider me an admirer! I have recently discovered that when I see the cloaked beings in my minds eye (usually when i wake up at any time after sleep) I can see polygon shapes in between them. Shapes like pentagon, hexagon, cubes lined up and triangles sometimes with the apex up or down. When I focus on the shapes I can see other shapes on the inside vaguely. They are always surrounded by the cloaked beings. I have experienced tetrahedrons in between beings which were three dimensional and quite interesting.
am I supposed to make the initial shape wide then go in further to see more of the same. do you have any tips on simple exercises I can do. At present I feel like a very young inexperienced child.
My eye has been open for a few years and the opening peaked two years ago this week. though it is a slow process of discerning and learning what and if I am to do anything with it all apart from appreciating the rich connection. Or am I simply able to let it all organically unfold? Am I supposed to go into the centre?
From Inspirations from Binah:
Instead of trying to focus your sight on these shapes, allow your mind to think of them them in terms of Sacred Geometry. Each symbol you mentioned has a set of associations through Kabbalah, numerology and many other systems. The geometries speak strongly to you so all you need to do is learn their language. Sacred Geometry is a language that comes directly from Source; it is not restricted to the sound of your voice nor does it have the cultural connotations modern languages have. You have been presented with the alphabet, now it is time to learn their meanings and what words are formed when the symbols are put together in different combinations.
Having knowledge present within you unlocks your mind’s eye, allowing you to perceive even more. Do some research and you will discover a whole new world. In time, you will find that the shapes around you, both physically and spiritually, will become a source of guidance in your life. To learn this language, go to your favorite library, bookstore or website and feel around the Sacred Geometry section – you will know what you need to learn. New languages expand our understanding in unimaginable ways. The more you learn, the more to gain from this gift.
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May 23, 2009
On Wednesday, yvette willl be giving a Free workshop on Manifesting Abundance using Kabbalah. Not only will you walk away from this workshop with a set of tools to make all your dreams come true, yvette is also offering the following event specials:
Register with a £50 deposit and receive 15% off this class, Gifts of the Spirit on 30 & 31 May
Schedule a DNA Activation and get 20% off!
All you have to do is come on Wednesday, sign up and get your discount.
Manifesting Abundance with Kabbalah
27 May @ 19.00
InSpiral Lounge, 250 Camden High Street, London
Love and light!
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May 22, 2009
From Linette:
hay my name is linette and i want to know..what can i do when i feel as though my mom doesn’t want me in the house any more?
From Inspirations from Binah:
It is important for you to know Linette that you are loved by God, your Higher Self and all of the Spirit beings around you. When you feel as if your mother does not want you in the house, take a step back and look into why you are feeling this way. Does this come from something she told you or your interpretation of her behavior?
Take a deep breath and go have a conversation about your feelings with your mother. Communication is the first step to clearing the air and finding understanding. Often, we don’t understand how our behavior is interpreted by others. Just because your mother gets angry at you or may be sad about a specific event, it does not mean that she does not love you or want you around. Tell her what she is doing that leads you to believe she does not want you in the house, then give her a chance to tell you her side. Open your heart and listen to her response. Allow yourself the opportunity to hear not only her words, but her intentions. We are not all good at expressing eloquently what is in our hearts and minds, sometimes, you have to listen to the feeling of love and understanding in the message.
The most important thing for you to do is to be active about your feelings. Sitting around thinking your mother doesn’t want you around is not going to solve anything. By discussing the situation with her, you have a chance to reconnect and improve the situation. Once the problem has been brought out into the open, a solution can be found. Good luck!
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May 17, 2009
From Anonymous:
“Hello Yvette, this will be the third try at this i have been meaning to send you this message for quite some time now. What is your thought on Love Spells? Its been a couple of years since i have been divorced and i am still madly in love with my ex wife. We also have a beautiful child together which makes it even harder for me. She says that she isn’t in love with me any more like she used to be. It ended because of my foolishness, and i know if i had another chance with her, i can make her happy and live up to my end of the bargain. I have been to five different “psychics” and most of them said that she still loves me that she just doesn’t want to tell me the truth about her because she is waiting for me to change, or she still needs time to heal. I felt really good to hear this but she doesn’t show any sign of caring what so ever, she recently told me that she doesn’t want to spend time with me because it is taking time away from her finding someone else and moving on. 
She told me this after i offered to take her to dinner and a movie and i told her it was friendly and nothing more. So here are my two questions. First, I have been researching Love Spells online some of them promise the return of lost lovers. What is your opinion on this? do they work? Second is Should i believe what these psychics tell me? that my ex wife does indeed still love me and that there is time that needs to laps? I am willing to wait as long as it takes for her i just wish to some day re unite with her. Thank you for your help.”
Inspirations from Binah:
A Love Spell may bring you together, but it cannot make her love you. By forcing her to act against her nature, you are engaging in powerful Karmic forces that will eventually back-fire with terrible repercussions. The world is made of balance and polarity – to affect the ying, you must also affect the yang. I cannot tell you what will happen, but be assured that if you dabble in such magic, you will have something unexpected, and usually negative, happen as a result.
You are looking for an outside solution to a problem that originates and ends within you. You mention psychics and love spells, but you don’t describe what you have done to change your ways and improve yourself. Even if you were to get her back, what assurances does she have that you are actually a different person from the foolish one that lead to the break-up? No one wants to have their heart broken twice by the same person.
The best thing you can do is move forward. Move on with your life and show her that you respect and care for her so much that you can give her what she is asking for. Learn from your mistakes and realize that in order to ever have a chance with her again, you need to be the best “you” you can be. Both of you need time to grow and heal. If you are meant to be together, individual growth will lead to a renewed faith in the power of your love. Trust in the journey. Forget about the external factors and work from the inside out.
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